Frustration and Pleading--with GIFs!

Yet again, I ask

WHAT?!?!?

British Guy. From 3 months ago. Who told me he had to break our date to take his dad to the ER (and I'm pretty sure dad does not live in the U.S.) and would reschedule our date. Then did not write, text, call, chat message, NOTHING afterwards. Your basic ghosting, which I was fine with because I had no interest in him.

He just sent me a flirt on the same online website where we "met."

WHAT?!?!?

My word, if you're going to ghost me--then stay away afterwards. You've ghosted, we're done.

And while we're at with the whole debate on ghosting is being kind, let me put in that

I PREFER TO HAVE YOU BE A MAN AND JUST TELL ME YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED!!!!!

It is NOT that hard. SIX words.

"I am not interested in you."

I will survive it.

I will be better for it.

I will be happier from it.

I will feel much less of a rejection with all kinds of feelings that I am wrong and awful and ugly and unattractive and unwanted because of it.

I will respect you for it.

I will think better of you for it.

I will try to set you up with other singles friends because of it.

You will be a gentleman who considers a woman's feelings and efforts in life, rather than a jerk or a wuss.

Just sayin'.

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Ug.

Majority of the time this is me with online dating:

But for my "part time job," this is the tool that is getting 99% of the success rate, so, we stick with it.

Yeah, I'd rather be

Please help me get out of this job--it is the worst!!! Or at least get me away from the online dating part of it by making in-person more successful.

</Sob story, venting, and ranting>